Privacy & safety

Private is the default, not a setting.

What you tell ELOVIYA is some of the most personal information there is. We built it to need as little as possible, and to give you full control of the rest.

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Our privacy promises

  • On your device first

    The check-in runs in your browser. Nothing reaches us unless you choose “Save my Map”.

  • Explicit consent, every time

    Saving asks for clear, separate consent. Nothing is pre-ticked. Marketing email is a separate, optional yes.

  • We don't store your partner's name

    The name you give the other circle stays on your device. We never need it.

  • Never sold, never for ads

    Your answers are never sold, rented, or used to target advertising, by us or anyone else.

  • Never shown to a partner

    Private by default, always. Anything shared in future will be shared only by you, item by item.

  • Export or delete, instantly

    One tap on your device. From anywhere else, a request form we answer within 30 days.

  • Minimal analytics, opt-in

    No analytics until you say yes. Even then: page views only, never your answers.

  • Encrypted and access-controlled

    TLS everywhere, encryption at rest, hashed session tokens, no raw IP addresses stored.

Safety

Safety comes before the relationship.

We ask everyone one safety question. If anything suggests you may be unsafe, all relationship exercises and partner features pause, and support for your region comes first. We never suggest a conversation or exercise that could increase risk.

Safety resourcesFull privacy policyExport or delete my data

Built for India's Digital Personal Data Protection Act 2023, the EU GDPR and the UK GDPR. ELOVIYA is evidence-informed self-help, not a substitute for licensed clinical care.

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Start with how close you feel. Three minutes, private, no account.

Start my private check-in