How it works

Understand before advising. Patterns before labels.

Most relationship advice arrives before anyone understands the problem. ELOVIYA starts the other way round.

  1. Check in

    Move two circles to show how close you feel. Say what feels different, if anything. Then seven quick cards: six about the relationship, and one safety question we ask everyone. About three minutes, no account.

  2. See your first read

    Straight away: one thing that's holding, one that may need care, and what we can't see yet. In plain words, about the pattern between you.

  3. Try one thing tonight

    One small experiment aimed at your focus, with the exact words to say, in 5 to 20 minutes. Skip it any time; if things feel tense or unsafe, it isn't right for now.

  4. See if anything moved

    Afterwards, the same two circles. “It didn't work” is a valid result. Save your Map, free, and it fills in each time you check in.

The Map

Six areas to start. More as you check in.

The check-in reads trust, friendship, emotional connection, finding your way back after disagreements, old hurt and newness. Over time the Map grows towards sixteen areas, including communication, affection, attraction, the shared future and effort balance. Each one is a range, and the Map always says what it doesn't know yet.

Sample MapWhere each area appears to sit
  • Trust & felt safety: Appears strong
  • Friendship: Appears strong
  • Shared future: Mixed
  • Conflict repair: May deserve attention
  • Emotional connection: May deserve attention
  • Novelty: Mixed
  • Romantic attraction: Not sure yet
Wider band = less sure. An illustrative example, not a real person's Map.

Programs

When you want more than one evening.

Every experiment has an evidence label in plain words and a “not right for now if…” safety note.

  • Two lines of gold and sage running stitch drawing closer on dark cloth

    Reconnect

    14 evenings

    When you feel distant, unseen, or like flatmates.

    Small daily moments of attention and curiosity, measured with the same two circles.

    See the 14-day plan

  • A tear in dark cloth mended with gold cross-stitch and sage satin stitch

    Repair

    21 evenings

    When the same fight keeps coming back, or something still hurts.

    Interrupt the loop, practise repair, and say the unsaid, softer.

    See the 21-day plan

  • A dull grey stitch bursting into gold and terracotta French knots

    Reignite

    14 evenings

    When things are fine but feel flat and routine.

    Small, shared newness, one evening at a time.

    See the 14-day plan

Open now

₹499 in India or $9.99 elsewhere, paid once and yours to keep. Read every plan first; start one when you're ready. If a charge surprises you, ask within 14 days for a refund.

Read about privacy and safety

Many knots have a pattern behind them. Fear isn't one of them.

Start with how close you feel. Three minutes, private, no account.

Start my private check-in