Relationship Intelligence · Private
Something changed between you. See what, in three minutes.
A free, private check-in that shows what's holding, what's strained, and one small thing to try tonight, with the exact words to say.
- Free
- 3 minutes
- No account to start
- Designed so one of you can start
- Never sold or shown to a partner
Does any of this sound familiar?
How it works
Three minutes to understand. One small thing to try tonight.
Check in
Move two circles to show how close you feel, then answer seven quick cards: six about the relationship, one safety question we ask everyone. About three minutes, no account.
See your first read
One thing that's holding, one that may need care, and what we can't see yet, in plain words.
Try one thing tonight
Aimed at your focus, with the exact words to say. Afterwards, check the circles again. “It didn't work” counts too.
Try it here
How close do you two feel right now?
A little apart
A little apart. That's often a slow drift rather than one moment.
Your Relationship Map
Each area is a range. Wider means less sure.
Starts with six areas and fills in over time; it always says what it doesn't know yet. Check in again any evening and the picture gets clearer.
- What appears strong, so you can protect it.
- What may deserve attention, with one thing to try.
- What we don't know yet, said plainly.
- Trust & felt safety: Appears strong
- Friendship: Appears strong
- Shared future: Mixed
- Conflict repair: May deserve attention
- Emotional connection: May deserve attention
- Novelty: Mixed
- Romantic attraction: Not sure yet
Programs
When you want more than one evening.
Your Map suggests where to start. Each evening has one thing to try, why it may help, and a way to see if it did.
Reconnect
14 eveningsWhen you feel distant, unseen, or like flatmates.
Small daily moments of attention and curiosity, measured with the same two circles.
Repair
21 eveningsWhen the same fight keeps coming back, or something still hurts.
Interrupt the loop, practise repair, and say the unsaid, softer.
Reignite
14 eveningsWhen things are fine but feel flat and routine.
Small, shared newness, one evening at a time.
Built on research
- Closeness circlesAron, Aron & Smollan, 1992
- Pause and repairGottman, 1999
- Sharing good newsGable et al., 2004
Honest limit: in trials, structured online programs done by both partners, usually with coach support, improved satisfaction by a small to moderate amount. ELOVIYA itself hasn't been trialled yet, and no program has been shown to prevent breakups.
Privacy and safety
Private unless you choose otherwise.
- Yours alone. Your check-in stays on your device until you choose to save it. Never shown to a partner. Never sold. Export or delete any time.
- Safety first. We ask everyone one safety question. If you may be unsafe, suggestions pause and support lines come first.
- Patterns, in plain words. Your read describes what keeps happening between you: one thing that's holding, one that may need care, and what we can't see yet.
- Self-help, not therapy
- Words, not scores
- Your decision, always
Pricing
Free to start. The Map stays free.
The Map is free for good. A program is one payment, yours to keep.
Free
Available now₹0always
$0 outside India
Free for good. No card, no account to start.
- The 3-minute private check-in
- Your first read: what's holding, what may need care, what we can't see yet
- Tonight's one thing, with the words to say
- Save your Map, free for good
- Safety support, always
One program
Open now₹499once
$9.99 outside India
Pay once, keep it. No subscription.
- Reconnect, Repair or Reignite
- 14–21 short evenings, aimed at your Map
- The exact words, and when not to try it
- Closeness measured before and after, plus a weekly check-in
Membership
Planned₹799/ month
$14.99 outside India
Planned for later. There's nothing to sign up for yet.
- Every program, as they're added
- Weekly check-ins and recaps
- Everything in Free
Not open yet. Start free; your Map carries over.
₹499 in India or $9.99 elsewhere, paid once and yours to keep. Read every plan first; start one when you're ready. If a charge surprises you, ask within 14 days for a refund.
Card and UPI payments aren't live yet, so nothing can be charged today. A program is a one-time payment, with no subscription to cancel. Prices include applicable taxes.
Guides
Relationship advice, from the research.
Questions
Before you start.
Is ELOVIYA therapy?
No. It's evidence-informed self-help: a structured way to understand what changed and try small, specific things. It isn't a substitute for licensed clinical care. If a therapist would help more, that's the better step, and our safety page lists free, confidential support lines.
Does my partner need to join?
No. ELOVIYA is designed so one of you can start by trying one small thing differently. What one person can change has limits, and some things need you both. Nothing from your Map is ever shown to them.
Will you tell me whether to stay or leave?
No. ELOVIYA won't make that decision for you. It helps you notice what still feels strong and what feels strained, so you can think it through on your own terms.
What does it cost?
The check-in, your first read, tonight's one thing and your saved Map are free, and stay free. Programs are ₹499 ($9.99 outside India), paid once. No subscription, and a refund if a charge surprises you within 14 days.
What happens to my answers?
Your check-in stays on your device unless you choose to save it. If you save it, it's stored encrypted in transit and at rest, never sold, never used for ads, and you can export or delete it any time.
Who is it for?
Adults in any relationship: any gender, any pairing, dating, living together or married, who feel something has changed. The questions are about the relationship, not about gender.
I'm a man. Is this for me?
Yes. Plenty of the people who start are men. Wanting things to feel better isn't weakness, and the check-in is the same for everyone.
What if I don't feel safe?
If your answers suggest risk, we stop suggesting conversations and exercises and show support lines for your region first. No app can spot every risk; if you feel unsafe, trust that feeling.
Many knots have a pattern behind them. Fear isn't one of them.
Start with how close you feel. Three minutes, private, no account.